Narcissism Or Authenticity? A Human Condition or Human Value?
During seventeenth and eighteenth centuries human beings came to be thought of more as individuals than as placeholders in systems of social relations. This emphasis on the importance of the individual is seen where the individual becomes the centre of attention not because of the extraordinary features or, her or his special knowledge, but because […]
Bianka fix everything
After an easy day at work I got home and had the desire to do nothing. I had this conflict between my tired body and restless mind. My body just wanted to do nothing the rest of the day and my mind couldn’t accept the idea of wasting such a sunny day inside. How often […]
Are We Rational or Intuitive Beings? Khun’s Theory of Incommensurability
Commensurable means that scientists can discuss two theories using a shared nomenclature that allows direct comparison of theories to determine which theory is more valid or useful. The paradigm (common excepted scientific theories in a given period of time) which was admitted at the time claimed that an idea is either true or false. In […]
The Myth of Un-Conditional Love
If you are searching for love, what are you searching for? Possession? Affirmation? Reassurance? Refuge? A hope for another life than the one you have? A hope for the divine intervention, someone who will make you happy so you don’t need to do anything? Many times during the sessions with clients, we circle around the […]
The Folish and The Wise, Courage In Shadow and Light
“The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts the sails.” William Arthur Ward There are so many ways to be right and to be wrong but life is beyond being right and wrong. The third path is wisdom which is where we try to be truly aligned with […]
Working As A Family Therapist For The Municipality Of Malmö Using MST Method
Working as a family therapist has been one of the most rewarding and fulfilling jobs I have ever had. It’s never fair to make a comparison between two things but working as private therapist was almost a vacation compared to sitting in someone’s home while they are yelling and shouting at each other in front […]
What is the Good Life? Rogers said “The Fully Functioning Human Being”
Carl Rogers (1959) believed that humans have one basic motive, that is the tendency to self-actualize, which means to fulfill one’s potential and realize the highest level of ‘human beingness’. Some other approaches of psychology give the metaphor that every being is like the flower that will grow to its full potential if the conditions […]
How to overcome obstacles?
This blog challenge is to spend some time thinking about the biggest obstacle currently holding you back from what you want. Is there a skill you are missing at work, a relationship that you need to rekindle or end? Define your main obstacle that stand between you and achieving your desire. The key question is […]